Christmas is sneaking up on us fast and I have let the blog slowly slip away due to the holidays and being so busy and fighting colds. The last one definitely wasn’t any fun. Anyways as the holidays are here we tend to forget our place when we are around others. Make sure you and your Dominant talk about what is and what isn’t okay and what all the rules are. What are you to call each other around family and of friends. You don’t want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. Then things get weird and just don’t go well. If you call your partner Daddy, Misstress, Master maybe agree on a nickname while around vanillia’s. Remember to stay in their sight incase hand signals get used to call you over to them. Remember to use indoor tones at all times. Never drink more than 2 drinks if your drinks are strong. Make sure to always let them know when you are going to the bathroom or leaving the room so they don’t worry or stress when they can’t find you. Ask to help and help out where you can. Always smile...no matter how hard it may be. Always sit up straight. Make sure your partner is having fun and have fun yourself as well. Join in games you enjoy. Never raise your voice. Do not start a fight/argument/scene. Never forget your manners. Always make sure to say please and thank you, and no thank you.
Christmas can be a fun holiday, but for some it can also be a hard holiday...Beware of emotions, facial expressions, vibes, and body language
