Spending time with your loved ones is important. When you spend time together you learn more about someone. It is spending time together and being able to relax with one another. Do things you both enjoy and not worrying about the world. Such as work, bills, and other responsibilities. Time together is time where you get to grow together. Quality time is giving someone your undivided attention.
For some quality time is their personal love language and if you don't give them your quality time they feel unloved. Quality time is a powerful and emotional connection. It is the togetherness. If you are doing something else and not paying attention to them you are not giving them your full attention which mean you aren't giving them your quality time. Ask them questions and listen. Actually listen. Don't disregard their feelings.
- Maintain eye contact
- Don't be distracted on your phone or other things when listening
- Ask yourself how they are feeling (watch body language and facial expressions)
- While listening don't interrupt (when you do it says you don't really care)
So do you want to grow? If you do here are some ideas of how you can spend some quality time together...
- Have dinner together
- Fix things together (things around the house)
- Go for walks together (even if it is after dinner)
- Leave a message (text at a random time to let them know you are thinking of them)
- Do a big project together (build something together)
- Read together
- Plan monthly excursions (going to the zoo, a day trip somewhere new, play pokemon go in town together, go to a museum, try doing something new)
- Share family stories
- Talk about happy memories (as a child or even now)
- Go on a one on one date
Everyone deserves to feel as if they are important so make sure you make time for the ones or one you love. Give your time and love.
No comments:
Post a Comment