Getting to know your person...

While dating you want to get to know the person you asked out...

So how we get to know each other???
        Well that answer is easy...you gotta ask questions.

What kinds of questions can you ask while on a date???

We can start with the basics...
        What do you like?
        What do you do for work?
        How old are you? (honestly a woman never reveals her age, but you also want to make sure they aren't to young for you
        How tall are you?
        What do you like to do for fun?
        What hobbies do you have?
       
Then we get into the deeper questions...

       -Do you have kids? if they do you need to really think hard before pursuing because you are not going to date her to learn how to be a parent. If that is you your relationship will NOT work. You have to be willing to help her. Whether or not she or he asks for the help. You can NOT just yell at their child or children because they make you mad. It isn't easy being a parent. Let alone a single parent. So....are you really willing to take that step to be willing to take in children that aren't yours? It isn't an easy job and not all are meant to do it. Not everyone is meant to be a parent and that is okay, but if they have kids and you are not ready do not string her along. The sooner you break it off the easier it is for them to move on.
       -What do you look for in a partner/spouse?
       -What are some of your favorite drinks? (if your a drinker          hopefully you know lol.
       -Where do you work?
       -Do you enjoy your job?
       -Ask them how their day was and really listen to their answers.

Now you aren't finding all this out so you can get in their pants, but to learn about each other to see if you could grow old together. All your dates you go on you should enjoy. If you don't enjoy it try something new and different next time. I mean marriage is a HUGE deal. I personally recommend dating a guy for 2 years before getting to know them. I personally did one year long distance (he was stationed in another state) and then one year of living together so I could really get to know him and his habits. Really learn how to trust this person. If there is no trust there is not foundation for the relationship

Do your walls go down or do you want to raise them a little higher???
These are all things that need to be thought through.