The R word in a Relationship

    Mmhmmm...it is possible. Some spouses don't want us knowing either. I am here to let you know and I am here to tell you to stand your ground. Do not fear them and file against them!!! Their asses deserve to be locked up forever and their junk chopped off, but that is me. You are probably thinking what the heck are you talking about. What R word?!?!?! I am talking about Rape.

    Many years ago there was this girl. She had at one point thought she was in loved with a guy. Every time he abused he she would forgive him thinking he would change and that things would get better. I had chatted with her many times. Well during their divorce he came over to get their kids and he forced himself upon her. With her not being strong enough to fight him off he still kept trying to push him away and get away. As he kept forcing himself upon her. She cried and threw up on one of her comforters. He finished, grab their kids and left. She was broken. She was in shock. She couldn't believe what had just happened to her. She was starting to finally shine after leaving him and then he did that and it just broke her. She didn't know what to do. So she talked to her neighbor and they went out. Oh how she wishes she would have called the cops instead. When she was a little tipsy she then told her guy friend what had happened and since he was in another state couldn't do anything. He was pissed though. He wanted her far away from him and wanted to be there to protect her. He felt like he had failed her because he wasn't there to protect her. Well when she went to go file he had already told someone that she would be making the call. Soooo what struck me as weird was if he did that and told them it was fabricated before her? Then she said he went into hiding. Someone eventually found him, but since she couldn't file she now doesn't tell anyone her address or any information because she never wants to be near him again. I can't say I blame her either. So he no longer gets to know where she lives and if he ever finds her she will pick up and move again.


    When one is raped it ruins them for a long time. It is like they still have this power that just can't be shaked. You here his name or read it and your hands start shaking and your breathing is lost because you forget to breathe. Don't let them have that power. Take their power away and file and fight.

    If there is ANY unwanted touching sexually it is considered rape. Do NOT let them win!!!